As I see a flood of gratitude posts on FB, Instagram and here I just want to remind people that it’s ok if you are simply getting by- not filled with gratitude. IF and RPL is horrible, heartbreaking and a living nightmare. If the holidays are a trigger of what you lost or cannot yet have it’s ok to simply claw your way through. Don’t feel terrible if you can’t muster up the energy or perspective to live in gratitude. I sure admire those that do– but certainly relate to those that can’t. Sending you all hugs and hope the holidays fly by until you can hold your miracle and feel true gratitude.